Foreplays are excellent place to begin anything, and it takes a bit of experience and expertise to know where to touch and with what intensity do you touch them.
It’s also possible that you’re neglecting some part of the body that are incredible erogenous zone, places where you can set your partner on fire, sexually.
1. There is really sensitive part of the lips
There is a nerve around the mouth called the buccal nerve, it is located around the edge of the lips. This area people really ignore to focus on the meaty part of the mouth. Rachael Ross, a clinical sexologist says this “This area is extremely sensitive to touch, but it’s often overlooked since most people focus on the plump part of the lips,”.
The best way to stimulate this part of the lips is to trace slowly around the edges of the lips like you’re applying lip liner, the feeling will be ticklish. Don’t do this out of nowhere, do this when you’re kissing your partner, then do it playfully, trace the upper lip first then pull back then do for the lower lip.
2. The dip between the neck and the chest
You perhaps have thought of this part as sexy too, especially those romance scenes in movies. The dip just right in between the place the neck meets the chest is also an erogenous zone, and it’s a serious one. Director of Female Sexual Medicine at Stanford Medical Center says, “It’s that little indentation where the neck connects with the collarbone,” The sensation there can be really good, “The skin is thinner there, and there’s not as much fatty tissue underneath, so the sensations are stronger.”
The best way to the stimulation is to kiss the neck downward then use your fingers slowly downward, use the the index and middle fingers on one shoulder then dip it down, then rub it in circular motion.
3. The nipples
One of the most popular erogenous zones, the nipples are of important value in foreplay despite the popularity, some men still don’t get into them. One of the best ways to show a man how to work your nipples is to suck his nipple how you want yours sucked.
4. The torso
It certain looks good when you hold your man or woman by the sides of their waist but it can be even more pleasurable. From the bottom of your rib cage to the hips, there is a nerve there that when it gets stimulated connects to the private part, the penis and the clitoris.
Dr. Ross reveals, “When you touch this area, it reflexively causes the pelvic-floor muscles to contract in both men and women, which increases arousal,”. Unlike other places that needs light touch, in this part, you will need to be firmer, it’s very ticklish. The advantages are in two ways, one is that it feels crazy good when it’s done well, the second is that it can lead to a very terrific orgasm.
This is erotic gold, the thighs have some of the most intense nerves, especially at the top of the thighs. Dr. Millheiser says “It’s called the ilioinguinal nerve, and it’s incredibly sensitive to touch,” The doctor advises that you save this for the last, then you can start by using a wet finger then drag is slowly from the middle of the thighs to the top, you can follow that up with using your tongue to trace it all the way to the upper part.