Why So Complicated? 5 things guys think about during 69 without telling you

Mr RockJanuary 22, 2018

In case you’re wondering what guys think of that position, here are what they’re according to Frank Kobola, Cosmopolitan. 1. Too much going on It can be overwhelming, he’s giving you head while you’re giving him too. It’s a lot going on.

Not all guys have lost their filter, filter used here in the context of saying everything on one’s mind. Some guys say things as they observe them, others just keep mum and allow things to degenerate or till they cannot take it anymore. Sixty-nine is one that some people think it’s a bit too much.

In case you’re wondering what guys think of that position, here are what they’re according to Frank Kobola, Cosmopolitan.

1. Too much going on

It can be overwhelming, he’s giving you head while you’re giving him too. It’s a lot going on.
(Dreamstime)

So, he’s in between your legs, and you’re in between his legs. What in God’s name is going on? It perhaps take a lot of practise before everything gets normal, and you can both start enjoying it.

2. Breathing can be a problem

Just like earlier said, this is one sex position that can take a lot to settle into because it has to do with the face being stuck in the other person’s genitals, there maybe a problem with breathing if you don’t know the right technique down there.

3. The nose and the anus

You can both be in the mood but his nose close to your asshole?
(iStock)

Here is one position that will have his nose and the top part of his face in your ass, quite possibly his nose around the anus. If he’s someone who isn’t into anal sex or , this can be a very big problem. If he’s doing it, then he’s doing it out of love for you.

4. Everyone is busy

Maybe this is the biggest problem with sixty-nine. Ideally regular oral sex is about pleasing one’s partner one at a time not simultaneously. There won’t be time to enjoy the oral sex as you’re also busy trying to pleasure your partner. It just takes away from the entire thing. By the time one of the parties stops and moans the other party feels slighted but he/she is only enjoying the darn thing like a normal person.

5. He doesn’t want to be on top

The position you’re will show how enjoyable it will get.
(Fine Art America)

If sides are being chosen, the best side to be is beneath because it seems the person on top does more work than the person beneath. The guy been on top can have all sorts of weird things, like his balls on your eyes. It’s just super weird.

Bonus

He is probably thinking, let’s do this. This can be first of many or the last. People get inquisitive about , so he’s trying it out, if it works well, then great else, it’s goodbye forever. At the moment as it is happening, he is probably there thinking this is overrated, nobody will enjoy this except lesbians, just maybe.